The Sex Talk

Imagine if they said "look you can only have sex when you are ready..." and by readiness I do not mean being ready to open legs, look at the roof and screaming meaningless "..I love you's.." and empty promises..

Like go there knowing what you want and what is required of you, explore yourself so you may have an idea of what pleasure is. On the other hand choose wisely the person you wanna experience your first time with,let it not be because of pressure from friends nor you trying to prove yourself to someone, let it not be on drunk nights rather those nights where y'all are highly intoxicated by love;then at least there will be no regrets... Look this whole thing is not about pleasure, it's not meant to be done just for fun unless you've totally switched off your emotions and totally do not care about your spirituality ... It's meant to connect a couple that is involved hence its usually suggested after marriage, but also it would be tragic to meet for the first time on the wedding night and only to find that you re stuck with someone who just bites,sucks and pumps the life out of you,someone who cares about their own pleasure and not yours ...